I was about to generalize and say Girls always expect guys to be the ones handling the conversation on the first date but well, i’ll restrain myself. I’ve been in scenarios where i’d invite a chick on a date and there would be no conversation flow at all, probably the girl was shy or she didn’t know what to say.. or she wasn’t even into the date at all and she came for the free food. Sometimes the date would feel like an interview where i ask questions and i’d get one worded boring answers. Most times after such dates i don’t even bother myself calling the girl to ask if she got home safely, i just cut her off immediately because life is just too damn short for such.
Anyways enough about me and my past boring dates, Here are some questions you can ask yourselves to avoid dead boring dates that would leave both parties feeling awkward afterwards.
1. What do you do for fun?
2. What do you do after work every day?
3. What kind of movies do you like watching?
4. What’s your idea of a good time/conversation?
5. If you ruled the world, what would you change?
6. Which parent are you closer to?
7. What are your biggest turn offs about the opposite sex?
8. Do you always look this good? /Are you always this charming?
9. Do you like spontaneity or do you like routine?
10. If you could travel the world, which are the five places you’d never miss?
11. What do you hate most about meeting someone on a first date?
Here are a few questions that you can ask only if your date warms up to you and is interested in making conversations with you. Some are funny, some lead to more conversations and a couple of them predict the romance.
12. Which part of your body is the most ticklish?
13. How old were you when you had your first crush?
14. What happens on a regular guys’/girls’ night out with your friends?
15. How would you define a relationship?
16. So how long ago was your last relationship?
17. What did you think of our date today before we met each other?
18. And what do you think now?