If you recently split up with your girlfriend then you are probably hurting real bad right now. You feel sick to your stomach and you just want to be left alone. I know because I’ve been there.
Today, yours truly shares ways you can get your ex-girlfriend back.
Stage 1; Straight After A Break-Up
Understand Why She Left You; The first step is to understand why the break up happened in the first place. What was she saying? Were there any signs? Did she say why she didn’t like or love you anymore?
Leave It At Least A Month; Don’t be needy or act desperate. It’s not going to help you. If you are tempted delete her number.
Get Back In Touch; Keep it simple and casual. Text her on Facebook or something. “Hi, so I got a job (yay for me)…fancy a celebratory lunch?…end there! Don’t be desperate and start inserting kisses.
When you eventually meet don’t bring up anything about the break-up. Just try to be the same guy she saw and liked in the first place.
Stage 2; She Has A Boyfriend.
This is probably the worst of the bunch but it is not impossible to come back from. If you’ve heard from “sources” that she has a new guy, dear reader, it’s time for us to go into beast mode.
Upgrade; Change your clothes, your shoes, your hair. Be different but better. Someone she doesn’t expect or forgot exists. Go to the gym, too! Fill your head with positive thoughts!
Pimp Up Your Facebook Profile; Your facebook profile is a constant message that your friends and acquaintances are reading. It’s crucial that they see the guy you should want to be seen as confident, happy, independent and outgoing!
This means that you need to upload pictures of you partying with other pretty girls, travelling, smiling, doing things you never did with her.
Get In Touch; Go back to step one .
Stage 3; She Doesn’t Want You Back.
Why Doesn’t She; It’s vital that you find out why she doesn’t because this would help you to build a reaction plan. Did you cheat? Did she blame you for wasting years on her without proposing? Figure it out lad!
Write To Her-Get paper, get a pen, and write. Apologize. Take responsibility. Wait.
Repeat stages one and two above.
In conclusion, be persistent (not desperate), don’t sulk (if not you’ve lost), and embrace change.
Yours,
Mac.
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