Talking with a lot of women, their reasons for being with married men vary. From using him as an expensive substitute for their cheap boyfriends to wanting the access to the connections he provides. A married man would provide stability is what they assume.
Here, Mac discusses reasons why a married man is always a firm no!
1. It Is Very Wrong; Of all the reasons why you shouldn’t be with a married man, the first is as plain and simple as this, it is wrong! Both of you can come up with all sorts of reasons why you’re doing it e.g it is real love, his wife doesn’t treat him right, etc. Those are excuses, but cheating is never right.
2. He Is The Winner; He’s eating his cake and having it in tandem. His legitimate marriage helps his public persona and his illegitimate one with you supply all he’s needing outside his marriage. His friends would call him “bad guy” while yours would call you “husband snatcher”.
3. He Won’t Leave Her For You; I don’t care how many promises he made to you. Don’t ever expect him to leave her and come for you! And yes, he would find someone better than you!
4. He Might Not Be Who You Think He Is; Stories abound everywhere about how this girl or that was used for sacrifice. The act isn’t perpetuated in a day! You will never know where he is, what he is doing, and who he is doing it with!
5. You’ll Always Be A Secret; No one can know about you. Not family, not respectable friends. You can’t go out at ease because you might get caught be either his family or yours. Walking through the world, freely and radiantly, with someone who is proud of you, would give you a childish glow. So why bother with a married man?
6. Lose His Respect And It’s Over; As soon as you accept his offer, his love for you reduces because he would feel you are after his moment. As soon as he starts to string you along like his little puppet, we can call it curtains.
7. You Are Wasting Your Time; No matter how much you try, you would look older than your age. Because you are dating a significantly older man! Because it is convenient, a relationship with an older man can go on for a long time, thereby constricting you from having a proper meaningful relationship in the mean. By the time you realise, it is too late!
9. It Can Boomerang; As quickly as he cheats on the wife he is legally married to with you, he can do so to you. He can leave you on a whim! Don’t be fooled into thinking things might go another way.
Yours,
Mac.